Today a long-held dream came true with the publication of a piece in Oprah Daily drawn from my seven years working at our rural North Carolina’s domestic violence and rape crisis agency.
This is so great, congratulations on publishing such an important essay in such a highly visible setting. I am a dv survivor, and it is amazing how often "why didn't you/she leave" is asked when nobody seems to ask "why didn't he stop?" I also admire your years of work in this field. Grateful for all who helped me make it out.
The bravest thing I've ever done was leave my abusive marriage. The danger of doing so was real. I ended up getting protective orders as the harassment continued for years afterward. Twenty-three years later, I can truly say I am healed.
You were a blessing with your presence to those women.
Rebecca, your article and sensitive treatment of this complex problem will save lives. I’m so glad you found a good partner in Oprah Daily for this important message.
This is so great, congratulations on publishing such an important essay in such a highly visible setting. I am a dv survivor, and it is amazing how often "why didn't you/she leave" is asked when nobody seems to ask "why didn't he stop?" I also admire your years of work in this field. Grateful for all who helped me make it out.
So glad you got out. ♥️
"why didn't he stop?" = excellent question
Rebecca, thanks for writing this ... all rings so true!
Thank you, Heidi!
The bravest thing I've ever done was leave my abusive marriage. The danger of doing so was real. I ended up getting protective orders as the harassment continued for years afterward. Twenty-three years later, I can truly say I am healed.
You were a blessing with your presence to those women.
I'm so glad you got out. I know that took so much courage.
Congratulations for publishing this piece. I’m glad you never gave up. Domestic violence is an issue we can’t afford to give up on.
Thank you - and thank you for reading.
Rebecca, your article and sensitive treatment of this complex problem will save lives. I’m so glad you found a good partner in Oprah Daily for this important message.
Thank you thank you thank you.