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Mary Beth Rew Hicks's avatar

This is so great, congratulations on publishing such an important essay in such a highly visible setting. I am a dv survivor, and it is amazing how often "why didn't you/she leave" is asked when nobody seems to ask "why didn't he stop?" I also admire your years of work in this field. Grateful for all who helped me make it out.

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Rebecca Gummere's avatar

So glad you got out. ♥️

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Julie Gabrielli's avatar

"why didn't he stop?" = excellent question

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Heidi Fettig Parton's avatar

Rebecca, thanks for writing this ... all rings so true!

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Rebecca Gummere's avatar

Thank you, Heidi!

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zellie imani's avatar

Congratulations for publishing this piece. I’m glad you never gave up. Domestic violence is an issue we can’t afford to give up on.

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Rebecca Gummere's avatar

Thank you - and thank you for reading.

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Julie Rehder's avatar

Rebecca, your article and sensitive treatment of this complex problem will save lives. I’m so glad you found a good partner in Oprah Daily for this important message.

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Rebecca Gummere's avatar

Thank you thank you thank you.

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